posted 7 years ago
The simplest way is to not treat it, just use it as is to water trees, bushes, etc. Subsurface systems are best for avoiding contact with the grey water.
If you must treat it, then a constructed wetlands is probably the best bet. The output of a well designed constructed wetland is no longer grey water, but it's not exactly pure water either.
However, they don't tend to work very well during the winter in cold climates (if that is an issue).
My opinions are barely worth the paper they are written on here, but hopefully they can spark some new ideas, or at least a different train of thought