Welcome to the forums, Bobby! I hope you find the perfect place.
In case you or others might consider the inland Cascadia region, we have room at
wheaton labs (Western Montana) for folks interested in homesteading and permaculture and growing food - over 220 acres of room! Water is consistent at base camp (really lovely and bountiful well water!), and we're working on more consistent water at the lab. Of course we're also developing infrastructure, nurturing beginning food systems, and are in the early stages of a permie community. We have
shallow roots or
ant village options to try it out to see what you think. Or, we even have work-trade options for paying for land here, two options of which include
permaculture bootcamp and
fysh.
Oregon is beautiful and awesome in many ways, so I do understand if Montana seems too far inland by comparison. Again, good luck to you two!!