I'll start by saying up front we're not off grid and don't ever intend to be, so my opinion is just that, my opinion, not based on actually living off grid. We are however in a situation with our Bulgarian house where utilities are unreliable and we need to have robust backups. I do completely agree with that part of what he says -- back-ups are essential, and back-ups to the back-ups!
To me, the bulk of the post is what works for the author, in his particular situation living in a tiny house, working off site, and wanting to have as much leisure time as possible. What he's saying is accurate for him, but it's not all going to be the best choices for everyone, especially his heavy dependence on propane for back-ups. Also, someone with a homestead on some land is going to have a different set of options to someone in a tiny home, as he is.
I'd rather launder my clothes at home than pay someone to do it, and between a clothesline, an undercover drying area, and a clothes rack, I'm sure we'll succeed in getting our clothes dry. As we've managed that in the UK for over twenty years without a clothes dryer, I'm sure we'll manage it in a semi-off-grid house, too. I can see the issues living in a tiny house are different.
I'm surprised at his level of negativity toward wood heat, though it's probably not all that practical with a tiny house. For our situation, I'd far rather put in the work of managing wood heat and cooking than be dependent on buying in propane. We can provide at least some of our own firewood (cut from our own coppice using a rechargeable battery chainsaw) and easily get wood delivered, but without a vehicle have no way to access propane. Cutting wood is good exercise and also comes with a degree of satisfaction. His set of assumptions here again are based on his own situation, presumably needing to go out to work a "day job" and wanting to maximise his leisure time when he's at home. Personally I love the quality of heat from a wood stove, and watching the flames is far more enjoyable than TV!
Seems to me the author has made the choices that are right for him, but are far from right for many homesteaders.