Wow! Great replies everyone. These are the times in my life when I really miss my dad. Of course there have been many of those times since he died at 56 when I was 28, but I love having a community of experience around me at this time. Thank you so much!
My house is not big enough for more people to live here but I may look into adult day care, if that is a possibility. Personally, after raising 2 special needs kids while running 3 of my own businesses, I am exhausted, but I may be able to get certified for that. Infrastructure is all I lack. Thanks for the great idea!
I guess you're right that I cannot outrun property taxes and I am really hoping to stay small in my homesteading after having done the big and bigger, as well as the micro in the past. I have a somewhat manageable mortgage and a screaming great 3.25% interest on it, so moving would probably never 'wash'. The other debt was for repairs, replacement and remodeling materials. Those projects are always ongoing. I've erased a whole lot more than I have now but I hate debt. I will sell everything to not have it again. Well, not really, since that will freak out my son, but I will be selling a lot.
We have a local mushroom company that is going out of business but maybe I can pick up those pieces. I love that idea! I have had multilevel marketing businesses, engineering, environmental, drilling, consulting, and mudlogging businesses, I ran 4H, Girl Scouts, raised market swine, trained colts, detailed cars, worked at a million restaurants, etc.... and I am a licensed Professional Geologist. LOL. I am even a certified proofreader, if you can imagine. It was easy, but now there are so many apps for that.
My air prune boxes are in process of getting built by my son and me and we will be ready to start our American Hazelnut tree "farming" soon. There is not one nut tree to be found in any nursery or tree farm in our part of Wyoming. This is my new passion. I follow Sean at Edible Acres so I am hoping to get that rolling like he did.
You have all helped me so much!!! My head was spinning with panic but now I just need to get rid of stuff and debt, like you said, and stick to it. Thank you again!