As a person with disabilities which make driving not possible for me, I will realistically be spending the rest of my life within public transit range. Right now I'm just thrilled to be out of apartment life and have a small house with a small wraparound yard and landlords who are okay with me growing things, as long as I don't demolish the whole yard I guess. Maybe its time to have some conversations about what counts as demolishing

It probably means no covering up the grass with tarps to kill it. And that I can't fill my yard so full of raised beds and containers that the paths are too narrow for the lawn person to mow

But there is some wiggle room and I'm going to take it and put in raised beds as I can, now that I have a read on how the sun falls on my yard throughout the year. My husband cooks for us a lot, I am doing my best to make compost, we're mindful about how we choose to spend money, we value connection with others, his goal this winter is to learn to make mead, that project will be happening next month, I've finally found a combination of side hustling formula that really works for me, etc. I'm content with where we are right now and I don't see us making a move to something bigger unless circumstances significantly change in our life. I won't even entertain the idea unless/until I feel we're making the absolute most of the space we're in now.