Hi Brett,
Are these tomatoes you're direct seeding into a
garden bed?
Or do you start the tomatoes in pots and then transplant?
What sort of an ecosystem are you in?
What I do - most years at least: I make my own compost and I don't shy away from putting animal bones (we raise chickens/ducks/geese and a friend hunts
deer) in the compost. I use my compost along with some soil and coir (to hold moisture) to fill over-height paper pots (aiming for 3" soil depth). However, before I put soil in the pots, I sprinkle about a Tablespoon of crushed eggshell in the bottom. Since "transplanting" really means digging a narrow 4-5" deep hole and dropping the paper pot into it, the eggshell goes with the tomato plant. However, if slug pressure is high, I also surround the plants with crushed eggshell. I've heard conflicting reports of whether it discourages slugs or not, but it seems to help in my ecosystem. Even if you're top watering, I'm not sure those eggshells will do much, although if your soil has lots of worms, they may move the eggshell deeper into the soil.
However, I also burn bones in our wood-stove and many of these charred bones then go through the compost pile as well.
Also, I'm getting the impression that the most important factor is having a healthy soil biome. That requires getting your plants started in compost without artificial fertilizers, so the plants learn to play nice with the microbes from the start. (so I don't use "sterilized potting soil" which many experts tell you to use). There are many ecosystems where direct seeding into a no-till garden is the best way to go, but we get a weather pattern called "Junuary" - cloudy, cold night, weather in June which is perfect for growing mold, and not
enough warm weather before then to direct seed. If we plant early July, we won't likely get enough warm weather before heavy dews tend to bring the fall molds. Short
answer, lots of green tomatoes unless you have a
greenhouse!
So this is definitely not a "one right answer" question. Certainly adopting lots of bones from people who hunt or raise animals organically, biocharing those bones, then digging a trench in your garden in the fall and putting the
biochar in and adding a cover crop over them to attract the worms is something I would do if we didn't already generally have enough. (I often find worms living among plant
roots in the winter here, and not in the open soil. I don't speak "worm" well enough to ask them why, so I'm just guessing they consider the roots their "home".)