I can see your position on this of
course.
Please reference my original message to Burra Maluca.
There are certainly ways to handle things - and that, in order to be either consistent or reasonable is a two-way street.
I do not want to cause problems, and I equally do not want to be caused problems.
When someone does in fact make make extreme, baseless presumptions, when they have neither seen nor even inquired as to any details whatsoever, and then uses those extreme, baseless presumptions made in ignorance to shoot down a whole concept before it has hardly left the ground, it defeats the whole purpose of a forum, and most certainly is not "Nice" to say the least, and defeats the whole purpose of a Forum. It is your site to do with as you please, but it is also a "Forum" as titled, which naturally has a certain basic nature and purpose.
In too many forums, people play favorites, and when one person thrashes another, they get away with it because they are a favorite, but if the other person points out what they are doing and tries to defend themselves or the thread or concept, THEY get penalized - that is wrong, it is what has happened here, and it is why I am skeptical of getting involved in them, because I am not someone's door mat any more than anyone else
should be.
I sincerely hope that you are not the kind who plays favorites, and can have some respect for someone pointing out how their post has been wrongfully thrashed, and would naturally want to set the record straight.