Guns are tools and they have their place. If we treat them like tools and not like status symbols they stop being this thing that people fear. Electricty kills more people than guns do but we don't hear over and over and over how to keep our children safe from electricity.
I was raised in a poor farm county and I went to a two room school house where grades 1 through 5 went to one class and grade 6 through 8 went to the other class. I went there until 5th grade when we were brought into a larger district. Back at the small school as I said it was a poor district. We walked to school (not far) and often we carried guns with us so if we saw a squirrel or rabbit we would shoot it and have meat for dinner. Those guns were loaded because it wouldn't make sense to have an unloaded gun. We put the guns in the gun rack in the coat room when we got to school and the poor cooks would put out kill into the freezer in the basement kitchen. They would always make such a big fuss over how good of hunters we were.
The point is we children went to school with loaded gun and those guns went into the gun rack where it sat all day long. No child ever though of playing with the guns. Why would we? They were just tools, like a rake. You didn't play with rakes, you avoided being around when the rakes came out.

Guns were needed for us to have meat, they weren't status symbols. We talked about what we killed for dinner, not the gun we used to kill it. Most of us inherited our guns from grandma or uncle or an relative that had died about the time we became old enough for hunting. So our guns were nothing to show off, they had been seen around the county for generations before we got them.
So to this day I don't understand people who show off their guns (why aren't they showing off their wrenches?). Nor do I understand people who are scared of them while they think nothing of hurtling themselves down the road at 55 miles an hour, something the human body was never designed to do. If we could somehow get back to the idea that guns are nothing more than a tool; not a toy, not a status symbol, not a evil thing they would cease to be anything to even talk about and we would find something new to be afraid of, like maybe how we are addicted to energy sources that are finite.