Trouble finding a Partner? ....you might be an INFJ

Sixela Trauts wrote:When I read the title of the thread, I said to myself mites is what's on a chicken's 🫏

Unfortunately, I am also an INFJ. Taken the test many times, hoping it would change. Nope. Has been difficult to find my people, as I am rarely in people shape, but the few that I've got I certainly cherish.

Long since given up on dating, but it's good to see so many similar personalities in one place! Not that I'm opposed to dating, just simply tired of being another's spiritual rehab or karma. I've got more energy for what fulfills me when I'm not in a romantic relationship, so I'm not eager to give up that peace.

Thank yall for the memes and for existing.

Me too!! Just sayin’
Don’ say unfortunately! INFJ are the most rare of the bunch.  We are feelers who simply process the world differently- gotta stick together

Thank you friend 💕 just gets a bit lonely out here haha

J. Graham wrote:I ran across a Facebook page called INFJ Refuge. It has some pretty good stuff and some good memes.

These are golden. I've learned so much on this thread. Couldn't remember what I was and went and ran a test real quick. I'm in the club! <laugh/sob> Might start looking more into how to resolve solitary issues now that I know this about the INFJ thing.

I am also an INFJ. And these memes hit the nail on the head!! I am DYIN'!!!  I feel so seen & heard. How wonderful!!    

So true. iNFJ made me too interested in being interested to notice when people were interested in me.  A friend at work the other day asked how long I was going to shine on an interested lady?  “What? I”…  She then gives me a replay of encounters between us and my responses.  “Shot, splat, and thud” single finger iteration pointed at me.  “I hear what you’re saying”, I told my friend.  “My superpowers have been not noticing accidental ‘love’, gardening on the first date, and ‘Saying No’, with my eyebrows while talking quantum physics”.  “I like to say ‘No’, for some reason I jest.  “I know”, she said.  “Waiting for girl to trick you into a real date”? She quipped.  Then,  I recalled that exact pattern of my life for the last decade.  I explain to her that my brain has totally disassociated from my body and phone negating my existence to humans under 45, she nods rolling her eyes.  Like many INFJs I feel the need of a deep relationship, but do the math I my head.  And with so few INFJ’s really, when we meet the tertiary level conversation doubles for foreplay and whole relationships start, develop, and end during one lunch.   Later, Beatrix Akbash had a similar view of my social foibles barking on and on about them, until I pet her.  I told her the only meaningful accident was a nice lady I met at a small local group of farmers comparing farm feed we grow in case of World decline.  Eye brows locked like two devices silently syncing  enamored in our common interests telepathically we ate, laughed, and ran for our vehicles.  “Not too bad”, I thought.  Beatrix rolled her eyes.  “What”? I asked.