As far as I can find out, the rennet and culture won't make anyone sick, they just slowly lose potency.
I totally understand your point, but the rennet and culture are expensive and enough for waaay more cheese than I'll make, so if I buy more, I'll have the same situation again.
I'm an experienced cook, so while I haven't made much cheese, I'm ok if there's a bit of trial (and even error

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Maybe I just have get over it and buy more!