Hi Tim! Welcome to the Rocket Mass Heater Hub of the World.
Right out of the gate I'm going to say that to expect a lifetime guarantee on firebrick, whether its in a box stove or RMH is not gonna happen.
Even though they are designed to handle very high heat and go through many heat/cooling cycles, inevitably over the years they are going to crack and spall.
I ran a J tube RMH for many years using firebrick splits and saw how harsh that high heat was on them.
As you may know, many box stoves are designed to have the bricks be replaceable.....a bit harder to do with a J tube without a bit of surgery.
Another alternative though would be to use a product called ceramic fiber board.
An example:
Rocket Stove Cores
I have not heard much about them loosing their integrity over time other than through abrasion so this may be what your looking for instead of firebrick.
Let us know if you have any further questions to getting your dream stove started.