Washing machines use a ton of water. Toilets don't. Why not just use a Japanese-style sink tank for the toilet? After using the toilet, when you flush the water comes through a faucet at the top of the toilet tank, where you wash your hands while the tank is being filled. It's a little more water than you need for washing your hands, but it's a very simple greywater system.
Washing machines also have a pump that pumps out the water. That makes them good for pumping water out to the garden, which might be a better re-use? It would be much simpler than having to clean the water for toilet use.
If I had an old water hog washer, I think I would put my energy into trying to capture the rinse water to use for the next load's wash (but I would not save it for more than a couple hours). Actually if I had an old water hog washer I would get rid of it and try to find something more efficient... but I live in the drylands, where we can't afford to waste a drop. Local conditions will impact your design.
But keep it simple... in my mind, purifying grey water (at least without using a planting bed to do so) is not simple...
Good luck!