Hi Michayla!
if I remember correctly, after one month, you can pick a plot to work/stay on. After 4 months, you have earned 1 year of rent on that plot (some Boots work for 4 months to get their year of rent, and then become an "Ant," or work for a while at a different job and then come back to work on their plot. Lots chose to stay in Bootcamp for 2 years earn a lifetime of rent on their plot--which seems like a sweet deal to me!).
Before you've been there a month, there's a variety of things that can work out, and none of them require a commute. There's a bunk room on the main house (you can see some pictures
here), or you can chose to camp. If no one is renting one of the numerous
rentals, you two might end up in one of those. Some Boots chose to pay to rent one of the structures, and that way they know they won't get bumped out if someone pays to rent it.
I'm not at
Wheaton Labs, so I don't know all the particulars, but I'll see if
Lara can come chime in, as she's at Wheaton Labs and is a lot more knowledgeable about the nitty-gritty details than I am!