So not really sure what to expect from trying to find a partner online
, but trying locally isn’t exactly working. Having said that I do not really plan on settling for “close enough” just to not be lonely.
So a little about myself, I am 35 and pretty much a single father to a 5 year old girl, her mom is only in the child’s life every other weekend for the most part but is subject to change. I have come to accept the fact that this is typically a turn off or red flag atleast in my area. I do not smoke, but do have the occasional drink and brew/vint my own blends for healing and medicinal
uses. Beyond this I recently bought a small house on a decent plot of land
in Wisconsin which I am turning into a small city
homestead. Currently I have about 400-500sqft of gardening space and looking to expand that by atleast double for the next growing season.
So some more about myself, I am working towards a minimalist lifestyle combined with a drive towards homesteading and self sustaining life style. I am gardening to grow my own food, changing my diet to fit what it is that I can grow easily and sustainable
. I do want to couple growing my own food with foraging wild foods as well as hunting and fishing which I am getting back into the habit of attempting when/as time allows. Saying that I fo enjoy time outdoors, though I am honestly not a huge fan of winter, so I try to get out hiking, camping, and canoeing while the weather is relatively nice.
I do plan on buying a larger property one day and turning that into a proper homestead with a possible community
on site. I have not decided where I want to buy this land yet as I am still looking and comparing pros and cons for given areas.
So, for what I am looking for in a partner is kind of vague but at the same time not so much. I would like someone close in age, but there is some wiggle room on this one. Non-smokers, I do have a borderline allergy to some chemicals in cigarettes when they are burned and I detest the smell overall. Drinking is fine to a degree, but I can not stand people
that need to get drunk or spend more time drunk then sober. Due to the fact that I have a child no hard drugs either (this is what disqualifies a good deal of locals). Beyond these someone whom is interested in building something with someone that leads towards the path of self-sufficiency and doesn’t mind a minimalistic life style.
If any of this sounds appealing to you, or you want to chat more let me know.