Why can't you just build a culvert bridge? They have been around forever.
Partially dig in a large enough pipe to take 1.5 times your maximum water capacity and fill in over it so you can drive across.
I could go on and on about the variations to the structure, I'm a fan of gabion retaining walls. Whether you go level across or have a bulging bridge is your fancy.
Just look around any suburb, every stormdrain/ditch goes right into a road and out the other end through culverts.
The hemispherical shape doesn't crush easy at all, regardless of if it's plastic, metal or cement pipe.
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