I'm curious to hear from others as well.
These folks do free quotes, perhaps they can give a ballpark size estimate. Or perhaps looking at their social media for finished projects can give a rough size idea:
https://www.solarhydronics.com.au/hydronic-heating-system-design-advice/
Based on some notes I have from a Living Web Farms DIY
solar workshop video, I think the
water itself is circulated at 90-120F (~32C - 49C). The video is freely available online, but it covers more of how to build
solar collectors and normal solar
hot water heating, rather than sizing storage tanks specifically for hydronic heating.
P.s. Just wildly guessing here, but one idea would be to somehow track how much
energy you currently use each night to heat the space in another form (electric/wood/gas), then convert to Joules, and then perhaps calculate the equivalent mass required for that same heat energy stored in a water tank using a temperature differential between room 22*C temp and storage tank of 49*C.