Will you put fish in the pond? I have never tried eating carp or pike, we need some German recipes for them, maybe Lee Sattler could help.
On you tube there is a man who has a frog house a small bunshaped pot with a side entrance made for frogs and toads to live in.
Toads like vertical holes in the ground, there was one at my aunts and toads simply piled up in it hibernating i suppose and i was worried about them one on top of each other and over came my repulsion and started taking them out i never got to the bottom of that as i remember and really if they chose to hibernate like that they probably know that its alright. i wonedr how they planed to get out in spring?
This is when i was a teenager. Teenagers are living in lots of different ways from the merely boyfriend one, trying to overcome a repulsion for putting their hands in holes to pull out slimy toads for example, a sort of attempt at adulthood at facing the dirty jobs bit, a "i can face up to unpleasant things, i want to learn to be an brave adult".
I can imagine what Freud would have to say about my unfortunate choice of examples for alternative occupations to thinking of young men, he would say it was a symbol for sex and i would be left wreathing in fury at having things twisted like that. As i was telling the story that meant having to overcome some degree of repulsion i thought how all the adults i know treat teenagers as if the only adventure of that age group was sexual i remember the world of ideas as being a great adventure too. I used to read the twins books as a child probably don't exist any more they were about twins in different countries in the world, the eskimo twins who fished throuhg the ice, the tibetan twins who drank tea with butter in ti. they were childrens novels. The
native american twins had rights of passage to adult life like rolling naked in the snow and swimming in icy streams and these stories impressed me ia desire to learn to do horrible things though i am very bad at rolling in snow.
There is a schoool of psychiatry that rests its ideas on the importance of people trying to fullfill some role of adult they have recieved and the tensions that this causes at the same and dangers of people trying to fulfill roles, for instance if a boy conceives his role as bread winner that is good, he earns the bread but in as much as he does not see himself as an d animator or caretaker of his family in other feilds do they have freinds are they learnign to be competent adults he may find they walk out because he is affectively and organisationally no benefit at home, only at work.
A sergeant may be good at defending himself and his from attack and good at getting people to do thigns but he may be impatient and hard, etc. agri rose macaskie