I am not going near a concrete floor
Happy to read that!
.....so, limecrete, is what I want to do.
Excellent....
but my husband passed out at the suggestion
Silly man...and you can tell him I said that, but then again maybe not if I ever want to come for a visit...
what I am trying to do is make a floor that will be solid and support our underfloor heating plus a flagstone or terracotta tile on top
Now I have something to work with...
If you are planning on "under floor hydronic heating system" you want a masonry floor, that we do agree on 100%. You can use it under wood as well and it works almost as good (sometimes better) but that is a system that is proprietary to my designs and would be outside the scope of most contractors you are going to get, so we need to run with what you are thinking about. So if I was your neighbor and helping here is a break down of steps (modifiable within certain parameters).
1. Dig down to prerequisite amount to have finished floor layer at the level you require for finished floor to ceiling height. Your contractor (or you) should render this as an elevation drawing on paper or CAD before work commences. ( Proper planning avoids crisis management.)
2. DO NOT undermine perimeter (interior or exterior) walls. There should be a slop of original material at the "angle of repose" for that materiel and/or 40 degrees. You can do 90 degrees down wall plane but special considerations and conditions apply (i.e. wall stabilization, shoring, etc)
3. Lay down a 100 mm "lift" (technical term for level) of 20 mm to 30 mm stone (crush and screen limestone would be great but any clean rock will do). Hand pack this, screed level, and repeat rendering a depth of 200 mm, this would benefit from mechanical vibration compactor or very long and strenuous hand packing (8 paces with a machine or about 20 poundings with a 10kg weighted hand packer per square decametre in a radial pattern from center to perimeter. )
4. Lay down a permeable filter cloth, (better know as "road bed fabric") and then cover with a 100 mm lift of 10 mm to 20 mm crush and screened (cleaned) stone.
5. Now you are ready to select you grinding system to attach the hydronic tubing to.
If your tiles or flagstone are thicker than 30 mm you do not need to bed them in anything but sand or "stone dust" as they will form a solid matrix if laid with tight fitted joints, otherwise you will need to go through the extra burden of bedding them in a lime mortar bedding.
There is a number of ways of doing this, some better (only slightly) than others. Some are recommending a layer of "10mm thick radiant non permeable insulation" under the hydronic tubing. The "jury" is still out on this one as whether it does anything or not. I do not believe it really does and have not seen any "independent" lab testing to prove me wrong. Since these "radiant barrier" when used in walls are considered not as or to have little effect if they are "dirty" and/or do not have a 20 mm "dead air space" between them and the interior heated/cooled space. A 50 mm layer of polyiso or other urethan foam between the large stone and the smaller stone layer is effective at retarding heat loss into the ground. However, it also blocks cooling effect from normal ground temperatures during warmer months. Most heat loss is through the roof, then walls and a very little through most floors system. Drafts are you biggest "temperature drain," but don't go for "air tight."
That should give you something to chew on...and ask questions about.
Regards,
jay