posted 11 years ago
That's a good question. It's taken me a bit to think of the answer.
I grew up in the city/suburbs and moved to this town for college and never wanted to leave. More beaches, woods and farms. So I've been here for nearly two decades. Meeting people is cumulative, sometimes you meet one person and get invited to a party and then there are all these great people at the party!
I belong to our local food co-op where I've met farmers, herbalists, activists, all sorts of folks. I volunteered then worked there for a while too, and met a ton of customers.
I met a farmer there who was using the co-op as a drop off place for his CSA, joined the CSA, volunteered for the CSA, then worked for him on his farm. I met his best friend on that farm and married him!
About nine years ago I joined the local Unitarian Universalist congregation and met so many great people. One of my favorite gardeners of all time went there, and she has since passed away. Lots of nice people, mostly atheists who love music and plants and animals.
Plus going to the farmers markets. When I moved here there was one measley scrawny one, for six months of the year. Now there are more than I can count, on different days of the week, and two year round ones. You can chat farmers up at the markets, while they're not waiting on other folks. I have learned a lot asking questions and listening to answers. Ironically, my favorite farmers out of all of them were there at that scrawny market back before local was a thing.
It's taken me a while but I really feel a connection to my community here. I do have a friend who is a more recent transplant but a real go getter. She knew everyone by the time she'd been here three years. She has a potluck party just for farmers twice a year. It's wonderful! I felt lucky to be in her inner circle, that was a smart move on her part.
The sharing economy is where it's at. Good hard working people sharing things, help, food and company. I give what I can and I get back much more than I put in.