Jan,
I like Mj's suggestion--radical, in the sense of going to the root of the problem.
Apart from that:
• Greywater reuse does not make sense in every context. Sometimes it is more trouble than it is worth...hard as that may be to accept
• You can safely forget about jackhammering up your slab and running new toilet plumbing (see previous bullet)
• Go for the laundry--that's usually easy to get. See our
Laundry to Landscape page (and the fabulous sexy new two page laundry to landscape *centerfold* in the
6th edition Create an Oasis with Greywater
• Have a plumber or greywater installer case out the showers baths, kitchen sinks near exterior walls and on the second floor and see if any diversion is worthwhile...too hard to explain with a keyboard how this is determined, but sometimes you can get at plumbing by an exterior wall
• Put resources and energy into more efficient fixtures and more efficient habits...likely to have higher savings at lower cost than doing greywater with water hog fixtures and average habits.
Good luck!
Art