Thanks for the input, Eric. You know MUCH more than me, and I will adjust as necessary, but I learn by seeing and doing......and I'm slow even at that. haha
As for an update. I'll eventually get around to making an video update of how the trees did/are doing. I had losses

Sadly, and I have no idea why, but I lost every apple tree I planted, and they were in groups of two in three different locations (six in total). I also lost the pluot......which was weird because it was growing the best out of everything, and then all of the sudden it just started to die off. Also, the trees I planted in the front yard that were also espaliered (I can't remember if they're in this video) didn't do well at all. Of the four trees out front (three persimmon, and one apricot), one persimmon for sure is gone, one is 99% gone, and one other is okay, but not looking very good. The apricot isn't doing much better. I think a lot had to do with their location. I hadn't factored in the wind, and the beating they would take from it here. We have very high winds in the summer occasionally, and when it's 110 degrees outside, humidity in the low teens.........they just didn't like that. Leaves were stripped off, and the trees never seemed to be able to produce new growth without it being burnt up shortly thereafter. In all honesty I didn't water enough. Lot's of the issues were the result of my neglect, but all the other trees were behind a block wall (protected from the wind), so I think they were more forgiving for the same neglect.
I'm sold on the jujube. Of all the trees it did the best, and I've been eating fruit off it every day for the last month or two. It's still got a good amount on it. Ironically it's the only tree I didn't espalier (I broke its branches off on the initial try when I did all the others, so I just left it alone, and never touched it again. It bushed out pretty good up top, and looks great overall. I love the fruit, and plan on replacing the dead trees with more of those when I can afford to buy some more. Also the chickens love the fruit off of them.
I actually just made a really cool square foot container garden out of some roofing tin, and I'll have to make a how to video of what I did for that. I've never seen anyone do it the way I did mine, and think it might give someone a good idea if they see it. It's placed right behind the long row of espaliered trees (it's a little over 70 feet long/70 square foot garden spots to it), and I really like the way it looks. I'll throw some pictures up of it since you can see how the trees did. These pics were taken around the beginning of October of this year.
Thanks again for the input. I'll link a video here of the update when I make it, so people can learn from my many mistakes.