I''m a man
Regarding prenatal/infant early childhood care I would suggest you do what comes natural.
I'd like to advise about young walking talking....development.
That was particularly great when I was say about 1-5.
And what made it great was humor and honesty.
When I stepped on a bee and it stung my foot and I was writhing in pain, my dad came over grabbed my foot, saw the stinger and made me look at it:
"Look here son"
You killed this bee. He found the bee too.
"Looky here...."
He pulled the stinger out of my foot.
"It attacked you because you stepped on it."
I Did?
Yeah and you killed it.
You pulled it's butt off.
And it's dead.
This sounds militant and anti-bee.
But I remembered that getting stung by a bee wasn't' the bee's fault.
I stepped on it.
My pain wasn't as bad as the bee dying,
and My dad knew I was in pain and taught me the right way. We both laughed. Not as animosity towards the bee, but the absurdity of the lesson.