Sorry, read, closed, and moved on . . .
Basically what I would call 1 in 2 slope is typically referrred to as 6:12 on here, and there are plenty of references to green rooves with that slope, so I presume it works well.
As for how much 'growing medium' is needed,the only specific
thread I can remember was something like " 50 year old roof", but I can't find it any more.
That roof had nothing put on top, but nature had deposited a lot of pine needles, or maybe that was the one that was covered with moss . . . anyways, I've seen from that (nothing) to two feet of soil and everything in between recommended, and considering that it's so dry this year that even stuff in the ground is dying, there is no point putting anything on top more than is needed for protecting the EPDM and for insulation, so I have completely changed my plan and will be going for a couple of inches of sand or pebbles (if I can find suitable smooth ones) on a virtually flat roof.
What ever will survive up there will eventually find its own way there. I'll still try some stuff, (sedums and grasses, but at the end of the day it's whatever nature permits.