great idea about the military thing, thanks sue! were planning on extensive background and credit checks. Its only 1.5 hours so we will likely still be hands on renters. My husband will still have this territory and will be coming here anyway. We are going to talk to the bank today to see if we can even swing it. the folks are alot different down this way then in the west. but trust me they tend to think westerners are as big of idiots as westerners think we are! reminds me of the story that jared diamond told of how the new guinea people thought non natives were so stupid (and would have died if they were expected to survive on their own) while the non natives called them stupid because they couldn't read! judgement must be made in context.
The back to the land and independent living type movements that the people on the coasts condescendingly think they started is the way many people have lived around here for ages and they roll there eyes when some californian makes it sound like they are progressive because they are pursuing it. they tend to see the "new age" ideas to be repeats of lessons that their forefathers taught them and that they are seriously out of touch with reality. the real lesson is, there are morons everywhere whether they have western slang or a southern accent. we tend to retain the values
and the ignorance we were raised with. unfortunatley over zealous bible beaters are largely responsible for the"idiot" label down here. the republican party can't seem to extricate itself from their grip leaving all residents in the red states stereo typed as uneducated, unthinking people (and many are..I could name a few

) but alot of it is just about having different priorities and those prioritys are different because of the different enviroment (social and otherwise). just as the pendulum will swing away from that it will likely start swinging back in the west. hopefully it will come to rest in the middle for us all.