John F Dean wrote:I won’t go into the hours I used to work without breaking a sweat, it is pretty clear I can’t do that now.
I hear you. Lately my paid work is out of control (which is why I've not been around here much) and a family member had a medical scare where I was needed as a caregiver.
It got very clear that while I can balance some plates, I can't balance all the plates. Some configurations are okay: Work, commute, food. Work, commute, kids. Work, garden, animals. Work, caregiver, animals. Work, animals, food. but Work, caregiver, animals, food, commute and there just are not enough hours in the day (nor enough hours of sleep to recover).
(it's spring, and not a darn thing has been planted yet. the fruit is on a tree in the front yard and not picked. the animals are fed every day and that's about it. Last night I cooked dinner for the first time in ages.)