Please forgive me if I come off less than tactfully in this post. I am trying to figure out how to phrase things in such a way that they make sense, without whining.
As someone who lives in the suburbs, in a community with an HOA, and in an existing, fairly-large home, “put in a rocket-mass heater!” seems impractical. I do not have the knowledge or the skills to do it myself. I do not know anyone in the area who is able to do such a thing, and I have no idea what the building codes would permit. I do not know that a rocket-mass heater would heat a home of the size I have (approximately 2500 square feet, not including the basement, with elevated ceilings).
“Tiny home living!” … well, that would mean I’d need to move, which is a large impact on the environment. I really like my home and my neighbors, and I have already been putting in the best improvements on my home and garden that I can on a small scale. Our home is already built, so the environmental impact from that is already done. Our lot is just under a quarter of an acre; I intend to food-forest what I can, but again, it must pass HOA approval. Besides that, the larger home means that I have storage for extra food supply, my canning equipment, my sewing equipment, my tools, my husband’s hobbies, and can host guests for the day and overnight in comfort and privacy.
“Graywater!” — is on my wishlist, and that will definitely be a thing when we can afford to do it. We added solar this past year.
“Clotheslines!’ — investing in some more drying racks is something on my to-do as well. I cannot line-dry outside, not because of the HOA (they do allow temporary clotheslines), but because I’m so allergic to some of the molds here that I’ve had to start allergy shots. (Do not get me started on dietary changes for allergies. I’ve done them. I am wildly allergic to outdoor molds with or without dietary adjustment.)
I think what I’m trying to say in a nutshell is that while the answers look simple, putting them into effect is not turn-key. As someone who thinks permaculture is the bomb and I want to do as much of it as is feasible, as someone without a number of the skills and with suburban limitations, it would help greatly if I could call someone and say “please come to my house and see if it’s suitable for a rocket-mass heater, and quote me and show me the plans for installing one.”