Mk Neal wrote:
Nick Mick wrote:It doesn’t help that there is a problem going on with people either pretending to be disabled or they are just weak willed and have no actual disability but they believe they do. These actions make people skeptical about the ones with a real unapparent disability.
How are you able to judge whether a person’s disability is “real” or not? How do you know better than they do whether they are truly suffering or just believe that they are? For that matter, what is the difference between truly suffering and just believing that you are suffering?
1. I am not able to judge whether a person’s disability is real or not (unless I know them/unless they have been ‘caught’ faking it). I’m merely pointing out an unfortunate fact about how some people do indeed ‘fake it’ and that makes it difficult for the people who are not faking it.
2. I do not know better than the individual(s) in question as to whether or not they are suffering, that is for them to figure out. Suffering, in general, is a temporary part of life and is necessary for growth. Unless the suffering becomes permanent then it could become a disability, but that is just an opinion.
3. The difference between truly suffering and just believing that you are suffering (from a mental health view) is the difference between reality and emotion. Emotions are just that, they have no effect to the world at large unless you let them. There is also the issue with perception. As for physical suffering one can easily be temporarily disabled from an injury that no one can see, but unless its chronic there needs to be a point where the individual needs to stop believing they are suffering and move on with their life. Same goes for mental.
I probably butchered that response, but it’s just opinion anyway.