Sensible aspiration! I would ask if you have enough familiarity with different regional 'flavors' or sub/cultures of homesteading, land-based lifestyles, and local economies, to know which areas you may be drawn to, as things tend to work quite differently based on a range of more or less subtle particularities of place (climate, history, politics, agriculture, infrastructure etc being some of more obvious examples). If that discernment isn't real clear yet, I'd suggest some research and then direct exploration and trials to learn more - perhaps a year long sabbatical journey to engage directly in several locales via work trade or renting. What might be your first choice region off the top of your head, if I may ask?