Christopher Weeks wrote:I'm curious, do random non-UScians know that our states, by name, are part of the US? If I tell rando international folks that I live in Minnesota is it usually more meaningful than saying I live in MN? (And I now live closer to Canada than I do to any of the other four states where I've previously resided, so it doesn't surprise me that Jay, specifically, knows Minnesota, but I wonder more generally.)
Jay Angler wrote:A friend of mine really likes to see lots of presents under her Christmas tree - it brings her joy.
Soooo... the household rule is that anything that gets purchased in December for any reason that isn't *needed* until after Christmas, gets wrapped and goes under the tree. Anything from a package of paper clips to extra toilet paper is fair game! It works for her, and her family is happy to indulge her. .
Amy Gardener wrote:Catie writes,
Anyone else targeting a low/no spend Christmas? What are your strategies?
The strategy that works for me and many of my friends/family is to gift myself some kind of much needed tool then develop skills using the tool to make gifts. For example, one year I bought a set of wet stones (1000 and 3000 grit). I gave gift cards to sharpen kitchen knives. This was a big hit because (I knew from visiting) no one had cared for their knives. The next year, I bought a wet stone grinder. I had learned the previous year that many knives were chipped and needed preliminary preparation on the concrete sidewalk! The grinder really helped shape the worst knives. The third year, I bought some honing compound and rubbed it into an oak floor board. This gave the knives a razor sharp edge.
Each year, I expanded my tools for my own uses then practiced on terribly neglected knives. Everyone went away from the holidays happy.
Other examples over the years have been a jigsaw to cut wooden puzzles, a pressure canner to preserve jars of fruit, carving tools to make spoons, a band saw to make charcuterie boards, pottery making tools to make tea bowls and so on.
The holidays can be the time to buy the tool that has been on one's own wish list. By giving gifts to others created using a much needed gift-to-self (and supplies from the land/garden/homestead), the cost for gifts is effectively $0.
John F Dean wrote:For the past 20+ years I have definitely averaged less than $20 a year extra for Christmas.