I found my barrel that is about 30-35 gals at an auction for $1. It has a fitting on it that makes me think it was an oil barrel. Initially, i had the same problem you are having finding a smaller barrel. I used one for a while that I found at a scrap
yard but it was only 8 gals, so it wasn't efficient for making any real quantity, and it burned out fairly soon. I had some success just using a 55 gal barrel as a TLUD kiln, but I didn't like having to quench it with huge quantities of
water and I ended up with lots of pieces that didn't char completely. Like you, I wasn't too happy with the pit method. I guess my advice would be make what you can with a TLUD while looking for a barrel. They are out there. If you have a scrap yard nearby, they often have barrels pretty cheap. Sometimes you can find one at the Jiffy Lube type places or at a mechanics garage. If you know anyone that welds, it's fairly easy to have a "barrel" made that is sheet steel welded into a cylinder and a square piece of metal welded on one end.