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Looking for a female off grid partner for future off grid move

 
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Hello i am a forward and honest person so i will get right to the point, i am looking to move off grid in the next two years, but before i do i need to find my partner in life who wants to go off grid with me. Would love to find a future wife but if thats not in the cards then a life partner who will have my back in a off grid life and i will have theirs, would love to have kids but if you cant or dont want kids you must be willing to adopt. My goal is to build a off grid farm/housing village for a starting group of 8 adults where we raise all of our own food, sell products at a farmers market and create a village in where there is no judgement, labeling and no fighting over race or religion of any type. I am so tired of the way the world is today that i have decided that i will create a new set of standards of how communities should live and act and lead by example instead of protesting, blaming others and crying about how the world treats each other. So anyway i am an open book please ask me anything you want. I am in th planing stages looking for land and hoping to find the right people to start a village with.

Little about me, 40 years, male, 6ft 1in tall, brown eyes, easy going, forward, kind, honest, open to new things and ways but also like to keep certain traditions of family going. But theirs no set in stone right way to do anything. Out doors person, i can build anything, operation equipment, know how to use my hands and get dirty. Relationship wise i am open to many forms of romantic relationships such as non traditional mongamy, multi wives, open relationships of most types, i am pansexual mixed with free spirited high sex drive  and a dash of BI sexual LOL, just saying it will make sense if you get to know me.

If you are any of the fallowing please dont waste my time by messaging

1. Racist
2. Gun hater
3. Hit or abuse your partners
4. Against eating animals or hunting animals for food.
5. Over age 50 sorry had to set a limmit
6. Drug user
7. Running from the law
8. Radically political activist

What kind of person am i looking for? I am looking for a person who is honest, caring, hard working, willing to get hands dirty, someone who is open to new things and willing to put in work not just on the farm but in our relationshop as well.
NON romantic partners i am looking for as well. But my ideal situation would be a group of 8 adults (not including me) one male and seven females, straight, gay or otherwise are all welcome. Color, race, religion dont matter, between ages 18 and 50, any couples or singles who have children already are welcome as well. Anyway i most likly scared everyone off lol sometimes its hard to explain what a person wants but i think you have enought to work with, i am thinking of land in monatana some where in the midwest. But open to other places. Names richard
 
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Where are you looking to set up this community?

I'm sick of the fake concern most of society seems to show for one-another as well as for the world itself. It seems people just keep getting more and more selfish. Or maybe I am just experiencing too much of the negative side of society? Perhaps too much weight on that side of the scale is clouding my view of the world and bringing me down?

And also in the end of your message the sex composition of your group was "a group of 8 adults (not including me) one male and seven females." This is obviously the ideal situation, but if you want to establish a permanent settlement, you would need more than one other male aside from yourself. True, if you get lucky and the females are mostly lesbian identifying, then the issue of romantic relationships does not become an issue, except for you and the other male.  I don't know if trying to set a specific number of what sex would work so well. Best to let it develop naturally.

With that said, how is the development going?

Hit me up any time.
 
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Hey, As crazy as it sounds I might be what your looking for.  I’m looking to start my own homestead with the next 18 months.  Part of my plan is to open my home to children in need through fostering and adoption.  I have 3 bio children and through life happenings now live in a family of 7. 6 females and 1 male 🤣.  We refer to our living situation as a family home.  I’m honest, hardworking and love with all my heart.  
I live in Atlantic Canada, just moved here in pursuit of our dream.
Your post described my family so well I felt compelled to reply.

Maybe we could chat sometime.
 
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So did you ever find your female? 😉
 
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