posted 6 years ago
Aha, yeah these kids are separated, they'll get mouthy otherwise. Now they are there on the farm working with cows, which most have never seen from up close. They're often of immigrant descent, lacking a fatherfigure in their life, just hanging around on the streets in gangs, smoking cannabis and drinking booze and doing cocaine and stuff, break inns and mugging to finance it sometimes. There's no opiod epidemic in Europe. The other kids generally are very impolite, lazy and spoiled, and do drugs etc. I generalize about these things, but the kids tell me this themselves..
Herein the country side they don't get to mouth no one off because they don't speak French, so that already knocks them off their feet, they get bored and are happy to get distracted by work.
Then they see the poverty, the mud and the hard work being done.
Then they cry and moan for a bit and once they decide to go for it they get encouraged and positive response from the farmer, they don't get a lot of positive feedback from men . The staff pushes them to achieve stuff, and being away from all this material distraction of the modern world, they force them to think about what went wrong, they have to send letters home and talk about what they feel.
It's great seeing them get really happy sometimes, driving a tractor and stuff, becoming really excited about going back, what they're going to do and how they're going to change their ways.
Some still end up committing crimes. But then they can still think back about how it was in France i hope and decide to choose a different path.
It's difficult as well, sometimes they steal a car to get away or run away hitch hiking, one stole a tractor of a farmer to go on a 700 miles journey.
I've had one girl in tears when she was ordered to get wood from the shed to keep her own fire going explaining to me it wasn't fair and that back home they had a switch on the wall, that you could just turn. Same girl asked where the McDonalds was, "oh that's easy, down the path, turn right, continue 50 miles..."
She wrote back, she lost a lot of weight and changed her ways, helping a lot more out and feeling more confident.
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