I've done something like this but we used wood chunks leftover from construction. In our first version, there were a lot of wood shavings so after a couple of months it clogged and went anaerobic and stank. So make sure your bark chips or wood chips are big and coarse enough not to clog up. I didn't want to use gravel or rocks, because those will eventually clog up and need to be cleaned. Wood chips just gradually
compost and dissolve, so you just check them every few months, and add more when needed.
I made ours for greywater after seeing one for a flush toilet made by Ana Edey of Solviva on Martha's Vineyard. She had had it going for 11 years and just added more wood chips once in a while. She said the old composting wood chips in there just get broken down into soluble nutrients. Her effluent was going into a buried perforated pipe in a gravel trench near trees, but since ours is just for greywater, I think it's fine to have the effluent go into a little canal open to the air.
Ana Edey's design uses compost worms. Ours didn't because our school kitchen sometimes drains a huge pot of boiling water. I don't think the worms are necessary for greywater, because compost happens anyway, even without worms, but if you've got worms, chuck some in.
Since it's just greywater, a single bucket of bark or wood chips might be good enough, or maybe two similar buckets in series. I dunno, three sounds like overkill to me, and do you really have enough elevation to do three buckets vertically and still drain through without pumping?