Yes we're lucky that hawthorne seems to grow quite well around here. Not very much survives the free ranging sheep, but once they are past the seeding stage they do well. I'm trying to grow a deer resistant hedge around my garden area of hawthorne and have had some berries the last few years.
I hadn't heard that hawthorne berries were poisonous, but it doesn't surprise or worry me: so are apple seeds see
The Fern's webpage. Hawthorne seeds have a much tougher coat, and a fibrous outer layer, so you are much less likely to chew or swallow them accidentally.