25f for m, northeast, looking for my other half

heya! new to this site but not to permaculture as a concept or tenet of my life.

I'm currently located in the catskills (where I grew up), but have spent the last year travelling and workstaying on different farms around the US, I'm open to travelling more together, and / or to relocating (to.. some areas. water is important to me)  for mr. right

Early disclaimer that I'm detransitioned - as in born female, transitioned to male for a few years and have joyfully returned to womanhood since.

I hope to build (or maaaaaybe find a good fit in) an ecovillage type of model. A community centered around resilience and giving more than we take from the land. Not necessarily strict minimalism, but certainly an ability to live without the grid, and without overworking our mother earth. And not necessarily a commune, but a strong, interwoven *community* of individual households, varying as they do, each with their own projects as well as shared work and shared resources. And shared joy, of course.

I want a family, and hopefully not too far in the future. I love kids, I'm great with them, and want nothing more than to be a stay-at-home(stead) mommy. A homemaker to a husband who protects and provides for us. I'd call myself a tradwife but... well I'm not a suburban girl on tiktok pretending to be a housewife while I order takeout so I'm not sure the label fits? But I would submit to you eagerly, serve to you dutifully, love you completely, and be loyal always. Assuming that submission is earned, that service is respected, and that love and loyalty is returned.

I have a lot of agricultural experience, but there's always more to learn, too. In my downtime, I love to hike and camp and swim.

Looking for a man no younger than myself and no older than... idk 40? Who's driven, dedicated, strong, passionate, and experienced. I'm a bit of a headstrong girl, I need someone willfull who enjoys a challenge, to tame me, to keep my barefoot and pregnant, foraging our food forest with our baby on my back, and I'll keep you well fed and well loved, I can promise that.

is that a sputnik tattoo you have? I'm an old phart but just curious about tattoo

bruce Fine wrote:is that a sputnik tattoo you have? I'm an old phart but just curious about tattoo

It is! I got it on my 18th birthday when I was suuuuure I was going to go into astrophysics and go to space. Turns out that's not the life for me (I loved the math.... just not the "burning up a bunch of carbon in search of a lifeline so we can through our mother Gaia away" or the "spending all my time around the most depressed and miserable people in the world in a sterile lab" parts), but I still like the tattoo, lol

Aurora is such a pretty name, good choice :p

Kudos to you for being open about detransitioning, and glad to hear you made it back.

You sound like youve got a good head on your shoulders and worth goals. Im pretty far, but I thought id say something.....er welcome to permies haha.
hopefully someone here can keep you barefoot and pregnant
If you ever just want someone to talk to, feel free to hmu, otherwise goodluck out there

aurora sev wrote:Aurora is such a pretty name, good choice :p

Kudos to you for being open about detransitioning, and glad to hear you made it back.

You sound like youve got a good head on your shoulders and worth goals. Im pretty far, but I thought id say something.....er welcome to permies haha.
hopefully someone here can keep you barefoot and pregnant
If you ever just want someone to talk to, feel free to hmu, otherwise goodluck out there

well compliment my mama on the choice, not me, lol. But.. good choice right back at ya, to your or your mama. Nice to hear from you, fellow bringer of the light

yup. the world sure did change when sputnik flew overhead

Not sure we would mesh at all but I am open to talking and seeing where it goes sometimes reality of life and want is never meant to coexist and what is perfect in our minds is not what would truly be perfect with work time and in real life