The way I make them is a bit different because I use whole grains and beans (vs. the white rice and hulled mung beans which are more how they are made often by modern people and often from a processed food mix).
They are also often served with spiced potatoes along with the chutney.
I like them as quesadillas (or quesadosas?)

They definitely do well with some kind of sauce.
I like a cast iron skillet (one that does not have the sides like a frying pan - makes it easier to flip them without them breaking. a good thin metal spatula for flipping helps too.
To make them softer you can put them between two plates in a pile as you make them or otherwise pile them/cover them and they will steam and soften.
The batter stays fresh a couple/few days in the fridge which can be handy for making a quick snack or if a guest comes by.