Hello Leslie!
Welcome to the forum!
It sounds like you have had quite a ride. I am glad you are doing ok!
Wheaton labs is a wonderful, peaceful community.
https://wheaton-labs.com/
They have cozy cabins surrounded by gardens and tucked into the woods. You can have the best of privacy and community.
You can rent a cabin long term, live in peace with your
chickens and jump into community stuff when you fee like it.
If you want to build your own place or park an RV you can do that too.
Some folks come to Wheaton Labs to get a
permaculture education, for these people we have the
permaculture bootcamp!
https://permies.com/wiki/bootcamp
If you are interested and able to work 8 hours Monday - Friday, you will learn permaculture and homesteading skills needed to build and maintain a place, produce and preserve your food and meet most of your own basic needs in a clean and healthy way.
Maybe this would work for you!
https://permies.com/t/267198/turnkey-permaculture-paradise-monies