My son is 25. Mostly I think he thinks he is helping me. He eats from the garden every day, and feels a lot healthier for it. He told me not long ago he's going to help me in the garden this year. It's a lot of work, and I keep adding on to it every year. I think he's just realizing how much time and work it takes to grow so much.
He loves his tools, and is all about working smarter not harder. In the not so distant past he would have given me the cultivator and told me it's a more efficient way to do it ( to my equal amounts of being irritated he didn't help, and the need to laugh when he would show up with a tool and then leave. If nothing else at least he isn't sexist and thinks I'm capable)
A couple weeks ago he cleaned up the area I grew pumpkins and melons in, and hadn't gotten around to cleaning yet.
I'm a do it myself kind of person, but I've been a little disappointed none of my children have any interest in
gardening. So I will take any help I can get, and hope it will coultavate a love of
gardening.
I think I will take the advice given and consider it an experiment. I suck at composting anyway, so if he can help in that area it would save me lots of time, and money so I don't have to buy as much.
Thanks