A saying a friend told me, during a very difficult situation, comes to mind:
Time Vindicates All Things
Your list of points to consider works in that direction. Sometimes it takes a week and sometimes it takes a year and sometimes it takes a lifetime.
"Condemnation by category is the lowest form of hatred for it is cold hearted and abstract, lacking the heat and even the courage of a personal hatred." -Wendell Berry
My pie came with a little toothpic holding up this tiny ad:
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