posted 11 years ago
Len - I think I understand where you are coming from. I have a small home and I don't want something larger, that I don't use and enjoy all of it. I want something that fits the way I live, is manageable for me and supports what I enjoy. I know that I ran into the house/home connudrum when working on a remodeling project that would customize a room in my home just for me, for my enjoyment. I had people question if I really wanted to do that because it might make it harder to sell, if I chose to do that down the road. My thought was...so I am supposed to not enjoy my home and use it the way that I want just because I might sell it and because someone else might not want the changes that I made?? Seems like a line of thinking that is completely off balance. What I was looking at doing was converting my sunporch into half art studio, half sitting area. I like to work on stained glass and I was actually wanting an area that was well set up for that, with cabinetry and countertops built in, electrical outlets moved up above countertop level and a small ventilation system for when I would be soldering. Yes, it customizes a small area of my small home to my specific desires, but if that small change brings me real joy, isn't that worth more than worrying what Jane or John Doe might think if I were to eventually sell?
I think, as people get deeper into permaculture, worrying about what the world thinks falls by the wayside. More with the land and changes made to it, I think that people empassioned with permaculture go with what is best for them. In each and every case, that is different for each person. Isn't permaculture about doing what is best for the earth, not about what is socially acceptable for society? If we didn't have revolutionaries like Mollison, Holzer, Fukuoka, Lawton and all the others, pushing the limits of what is acceptable, we would be continuing down the rabbit hole of earth destruction, physical health destruction, etc., etc., etc. I know that I am tired of being told by someone else what is right for me. I am a big girl and can figure that out all on my own. I am glad that there is real rumblings of a revolution to stand up for what is right and not necessarily what is just acceptable.
Home goes beyond a physical structure and, I even think, beyond land. You have to be at "home" in the community you live in. Heck, you have to be at "home" with yourself to really be happy.
Thank you for bringing up the subject, Len, and thank you for further fanning the flame of passion that has been ever growing inside of me.
"Turn your face to the sun and the shadows fall behind you." ~Maori Proverb
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