Great topic, Joshua! If you don't know where you're going, then any path will get you there. Clarity is valuable.
Myself, I've overdone it in the last few years pursuing BOTH money AND family.
I got them, but I traded away too much of my time and
energy. Now I'm burned out and trying to recover. In the meantime, I'm operating at a fraction of my former liveliness. By liveliness, I mean the impetus to do things like the dishes (or other chores), or make tools (or other projects), or plan and execute romantic getaways (or other relationship work). My wife and I pushed really hard for the last two or three years:
moving back to Michigan from Arkansas,
having the third baby,
changing jobs three times,
I was self-employed for a while in there,
sinking the life savings into the homestead,
and then six intense months fixing the house up to move in,
working too many hours for months at a time,
and (this is probably THE problem, I'm just starting to realize) the baby doesn't sleep. Wakes us up LOTS of times every night. Always three times, sometimes twelve times.
In terms of money I have a pretty respectable salary, and a paid-for nascent homestead, but I'm not up for doing much with it yet. The thought of moving 25 asparagus plants, for example, from the nursery bed to their permanent spot is just crushing me. I'm too spent. I have to recover.
And in terms of family, we have three kids now, homeschooling, living the country
freedom dream, but I'm too whupped, for example, to build them a treehouse. I'm too spent. I have to recover.
What's the point I'm trying to make about prosperity? For me, freedom is the top of the prosperity list, with community and family close behind. Money serves freedom, and I'm glad I went out of my way to get some. But I overshot the mark, and I spent my mental health to get it.
Prosperity is having enough of all of the above.