Caring for animals is a lot of work - and should not be under valued IMO.
Having animals on ones land does bring some value, as you mention, however I would not consider this in lieu of pay, or even as part of my pay.
Buying animals and having them butchered are expenses to be considered, but one has to add to that the cost of raising which most of us raising meat for ourselves don't figure in.
So I would call a couple butchery shops in your area and ask about what pork is selling for per pound of hanging weight, then ask how much the cut, smoke and wrap costs for a whole hog run.
Check out Craig's List for piglet prices, and whole hog meat sales.
Now you can do the math and determine what farmers are selling whole and half hogs for in your area at this time (when they do the raising). Prices for naturally raised meats greatly increase accordingly.
1. Piglet cost:
2. Feed/forage, Water, Your-Time, Meds/supplies costs:
3. Slaughter cost:
4. Cut, Smoke & Wrap cost:
She is paying for numbers #1, 3 & 4 you would be 'paying' for #2
After acquiring the numbers for crunching and considering it all, you may want to tell this lady you'll do it for half the hog, cut, smoked and wrapped
Remember Time is Money, and yours is valuable.