Thanks all of you for your inputs.
I will try (hard) to make myself transparent so you get what goes inside my thinking.
So in a pseudorandom order :
1. I know insulation vs mass issue. I'm not trying to mix them at a conscious level.
I have chosen strawbale because, after all analysis, it was the only thing that made sense in my location/situation.
I have some experience in building with it, both how to and how not to do it for my inlaws house build some years ago.
So, while i know what i want (roughly), i also know what i don't want (and why).
Insulation of the walls is SB. Mass will be provided by the plaster and floor (earthen, stone, etc).
2. I have bad experiences with vapors getting everywhere so i know for a fact that moisture will get everywhere, you just have to find ways to deal with it.
So an air barrier that keeps the permeability low is needed.
I can't make it perfect and continuous, i'd be a fool to think so.
But what i have access to (in time/labor/raw materials) is limited so i have to pick something.
I might go the extra mile to get a better (best?) solution but that is upto to decision.
As i said, i do have easy/cheap access to drywall.
I'm not a fan of it but it's fast.
I don't mind doing a wooden lath and making a lime plaster, but that will take a lot of time so that's a minus.
3. I don't intend to live in the attic.
But in the future, necessity could rise to have this space temporarily or more permanently lived in.
So, doing small things now (that are harder or impossible later) that will take this into account is what i'm trying to do.
Also, the attic can act as a buffer zone between outside and inside.
Ventilation of this space is necessary indeed, just have to decide how to do it as it won't be connected to the living spaces.
Or just drop this ball entirely.
Anyway, all this requires insulating the roof.
I intended it to be a cold roof, the space between metal roofing and insulation being between 5-10 cm (2-4in) so there's air moving.
I would so much like for the roof to not leak but ain't gonna happen.
That's why in my first post i put a "what here" on top of the roof insulation.
A thin clay plaster would do it but again, details on joints ...
One of the reasons i have chosen MW is that it does not decay if water somehow gets in.
I would have used SB (due to extremely low cost compared t MW) but i really can't protect them up there (not with the current timeframe).
Also, if there's not a lot of water, some might flow on top of the MW if faced properly.
4. I would like to get the community involved, really would.
It's just that the community is:
- you're insane, don't know what you're doing;
- we all use
concrete everywhere so should you;
- all the conventional garbage and more (plastics to the rescue);
- no labor for what you want;
- will be more expensive ...
So my best bet is to involve people from away, faaar away.
Or locals, but on very clear, small, precise stuff.
I'll also talk to a PE in the design/permit team but they are very conventionalists and i better have a very convincing story to tell.
On some aspects i will have much better understanding than they have.
So, to wrap it, i know the principles, i just need some ideas as to how to do it and maybe choose one option or get inspired by another.
Or just weep in misery ...