Hi Frank (and anyone else who's gay as well),
We felt this need too, to get in touch with other gay men. It doesn't seem easy to find many. So we decided to start building a strong website around creating a gay eco community. The site is not finished yet, some pages need some more work, but it's coming together quite nicely.
You can visit us here:
https://www.EcoGay.org
Please be in touch, we'd love to hear what you think.