Malene Brynildsen

Sarah Koster wrote:Relationship 1: 2007-2008; We wanted different things in life. He left me for a girl with bigger boobs.
Relationship 2: 2010-2014; We wanted different things in life. He told me the truth after pretending to want to be with me for 3 years. I left.
Relationship 3: 2017; I was psychotic, and he was manipulating to get me to buy him weed. He left me for a girl with bigger boobs. Twice.
Relationship 4: 2018; We wanted different things in life. He punched me in the face and broke my jaw. I left. He texted me a hundred times saying If he couldn't have me, no one would. He's in jail now.

As you can see, all of these relationships had stupid foundations and were bad. Don't do what I did.

I get that girls with long dark hair and huge boobs are hot. Really. It's just... if that's your thing, don't go out with flat-chested curly-headed frumpy blondes. It's not fair. Damn you, Xena Warrior Princess. I'll never be that kind of woman.

1995: We were young. I left him because he put me on a pedestal
1998: We broke up - I wanted him to be more emotionally available
2005: I left him because he wanted me to be half my age and have smaller boobs
2011: He died
2016: He wanted me to be more emotionally available, I couldn't be. He resented my grief.
2020: He wanted me to be more emotionally available, I couldn't be - and he likes smaller boobs.

I get that petite, blonde younger women with maidenly chests, few opinions, who ask little from you seem enticing .... But, meh, that ain't who I am :-)

Sandy Ann wrote:Interesting story but I'm confused. You say I n the website of your property that you got married after the death of your partner and the place is for sale...

What is the real story?

His post is 4 years old.  My guess is he's married subsequent to it.

Joshua Bertram wrote:Some famous guy made this list up about his preferences for his already wife,

CONDITIONS

A. You will make sure:

1. that my clothes and laundry are kept in good order;
2. that I will receive my three meals regularly in my room;
3. that my bedroom and study are kept neat, and especially that my desk is left for my use only.

B. You will renounce all personal relations with me insofar as they are not completely necessary for social reasons. Specifically, You will forego:

1. my sitting at home with you;
2. my going out or travelling with you.

C. You will obey the following points in your relations with me:

1. you will not expect any intimacy from me, nor will you reproach me in any way;
2. you will stop talking to me if I request it;
3. you will leave my bedroom or study immediately without protest if I request it.

D. You will undertake not to belittle me in front of our children, either through words or behavior.


to that, I'd add

intimacy upon my demand,
that you always keep fit, and have a nice appearance,
you leave the relationship upon becoming sick, ill, or needy in some other way,
new rules can and will be added whenever I so choose.


That seems to cover the basics of what I'd want

Feel free to pm me if you're qualified.

I have to wonder what you offer in return for all that subservience.  I also wonder if you've ever had a mutually satisfying, loving, voluntary relationship with a woman, because man ... The way the above reads, does not sound immediately like a great deal for a potential partner.

Just my two cents' worth.

Kandice Trickett wrote:Anyone in the Northern Canada region? I'm looking for permie friends as I'm moving with my two little ones to a secluded island plot. Not sure about romance right now lol, but would love some people to vibe with, and maybe even some people to move onto the land with me, even if temporarily.
-Kandice

Aani Kandice,

I'm in Central.  If you're not already on the "Resilient Manitoulin" google group, I suggest you check it out.  I believe you just need to contact the moderator, Gary, to request access: resilient-manitoulin@googlegroups.com - there are about 300 of us around the island who use this group to connect.  

Also, check this site out as well: https://www.gnusystems.ca/manimatr.html

Welcome and good luck.

The ability to simply be exactly who we are is right at the top for me.

Naturally, there are other desirable qualities that we should share (some we can probably take for granted if meeting via permies ), the most important of which are kindness, intelligence and a solid sense of humour.  From there, I have a long laundry list of traits that earn bonus points, but these are the most foundational requirements for me.

Oh, a sincere love of all the marvels that winter in colder climes bring would also be awesome.

M.

Matthew,

What a lovely post.  I commend you.  In early 2017 I too realized it was time to step off the hamster wheel. I sold my house in a big city and went north.  I haven't quite made it onto the land yet, unlike you, I feel like I need a partner in crime for that step.  For the moment, I live in an old church in a very small, very remote town on the shores of lake Huron.  If not for geography (being, as I am, in Canada) and being a bit older than you, I would absolutely invite you to join me in an exploration of compatibility.  You sound lovely and the goats, OMG, the goats! - do you have dwarf ones? - should really seal the deal in fairly short order. I look forward to reading some future missive that you met your match.

XO,

M.