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I'm amazed at how many times some guys comment the same or very close to the same thing to multiple women on here.   It is quite humorous if you start looking.  It's like they have one go to pickup line.

Oh and I am a single, straight, christian, 6'3",farmer/rancher, that is implementing holistic and sustainable practices on my operation as well as other parts of life.  Looking for someone to share joys and stresses of life with as well as working and learning together.  Must be ok with a jealous girl dog haha.
 
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It would appear that being arrogant, doesn't attract much female interest either!
Give them a break, at least women respond to some of their attempts to start a conversation.
Many guys really don't have the confidence and skills to think of multiple ways to start a convesation. Many are lonely and haven't had the best of luck finding appropriate girlfriends.
Its tough enough in the mainstream world, with a high salary.
But when you are living a simple and tougher existence without all the frills and trinkets many women want. Often with a lot less time for social activities!
Finding a good future husband or wife can seem close to impossible.
 
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I wouldn't say that it is arrogant to acknowledge  a real situation.  Pointing it out or being as blunt about it may seem arrogant to some, but it might also encourage those that have fallen into to routine of repeatedly posting the same message to branch out a bit.  For me it isn't a game or a competition against anyone else, I hope everyone here finds happiness.
 
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None the less, being critical of your fellow single guys pick up lines, In your first sentence, can come across as put down.
Most loving balanced women will steer clear.
Hope you do find love.
 
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Thanks for the comments, the point is taken.  It wasn't meant as a put down.  I found the repetition of it all humorous and had a chuckle at it, not at individuals.  I hope others had a laugh about it instead of getting bent out of shape.
 
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Would it amuse you to know that...
I wasn't "bent out of shape" in the slightest.
Just a female, trying to give a little loving advice.
 
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Not single but I would suggest maybe adding your location and possibly some photos (of you and/or your farm!) Best of luck.
 
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Meg Mitchell. Thanks haha I honestly forgot about where I live, SW North Dakota.  I know I should put some pictures on here, but I really dislike "selfies".  Maybe I'll take some farm pictures and work up to a picture of myself.  It really makes no sense because there are plenty on facebook but I don't really like those either.

Dee...  What can I say?  I didn't mean that you were "bent out of shape," I just meant in general.  I really love this online stuff where humor, sarcasm, etc etc really aren't conveyed through typing very well.   Sarcasm obviously, so much is left for interpretation by who reads it and how they feel at that moment or just who they are.  I did have a laugh originally and I do enjoy a good conversation, even if it's typing and misinterpreting things back and forth. Ha
 
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You are a good sport. I like that.
Not liking selfies is a great quality also.
So much vanity in the world these days.
I really wish for you the best there is.
I live in a warmer climate and too far away, to be a prospect. Not to mention being over the hill.
If i were a lot younger i would be trying to get to know you better after you responding as you have.
May a lovely lady find you!
 
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Here are a few quick pics of my operation, some are new, some are not.
-There is my succulent garden, some are native to the area and I transplanted, some are not.
-Cutting hay... Pretty self-explanatory but my house and yard are in the background.   I'm rebuilding the old farm house.
-Garden Is from earlier this year.  I collect rainwater for the garden and mulch with alfalfa hay.
-Calves This is one of my Hereford cross calves.
-Solar- I am slowly changing my regular pasture wells over to solar with storage tanks.  
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Garden
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Drew Gaugler wrote:I'm amazed at how many times some guys comment the same or very close to the same thing to multiple women on here.   It is quite humorous if you start looking.  It's like they have one go to pickup line.




Drew, it would be a safe bet that 100% of those guys are scammers.  I’m assuming all the women know this.
 
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Jay Grace, I'd like to assume too but every time I do that it bites me.   I just saw the humor of it but if they are scammers I hope the women know it or find out quick.   If they aren't, I hope those guys get more creative or maybe just real...    This online dating world can be such a mess sometimes.
 
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