I am living in a big state capital
city. I am sure there are a lot of people near me who are at least interested in conventional edible
gardening, and a few who are on board with
permaculture and more
sustainable food-growing ideals (like being able to source our food close to our city/region). Despite 3 million people living pretty close to me, I am not offline friends with even one person who is serious about this stuff. I do know a lot of renters and people who have good reasons to not be interested in growing their own food, and honestly I am not the type to work my pet projects into every conversation so food supply chat doesn't come up too often with casual acquaintances. So, how do people find their like-minded
permie neighbors?
Is there a feature on permies.com to connect with nearby members? Are there other sites or communities that offer this? Meetups? I see classes adverstised sometimes but they are expensive and it seems weird to go/pay just to maybe meet someone who cares about this stuff in my neighborhood. There are some houses we drive past with pretty sophisticated gardens (rain barrel systems, raised beds, vertical space used okay, etc.) and I sometimes want to drop a note on their door to say hi, but it also seems weird, lol. One of the saddest things about urban midwestern life is how you are totally surrounded by people but there are few polite, normal ways to actually interact with them, much less find out if they are into the same esoteric
gardening stuff you care about. Do you meet permies intentionally or by chance? Is it easier in the rural areas where talking farm/shop might be more natural?
We also have seasonal monstrosities called "home and garden" shows, but they are these slick, estrogen-targeting materialistic circuses devoted mostly to making gals with disposable income lust after pretty stuff to show off in their yards/house (thereby making other gals jealous and pushing them to buy more pretty stuff). There are conventional master gardener people there giving good information out too, but it's advice that really doesn't gel with
permaculture or trying to get by without a lot of imported inputs, etc. So there are some places to meet people into gardening, but it's not really my kinda gardening. We have a state fair too but that is overwhelmingly geared toward rural farm/4H type activity and you rarely see urban mini-farm info.
I have found the best info, people, and communities online so far, but since my goal/ethos is to do more stuff locally, I'd love to know how everyone else finds their
local friends (without just trying to convert everyone they know).