T, I will try to
answer some of your questions.
1) When replanting trees, consider the prevailing winds. For example, by me the strongest winds come from either the south or especially the west. When replanting, consider planting trees on the western side (or whatever is appropriate for you) farther from the house.
2) If you search these forums, there are endless uses for wood. Obviously it could become
firewood. And you already mentioned lumber. Personally I would love to be able to chip up a bunch of that wood and get a great big pile of woodchips. I also had a terrible storm come through my area back in 2009--we had sustained winds of 100mph and we had a tremendous amount of fallen trees. I too burned a lot at the time not really knowing what to do with all the wood. But I did eventually save some of the trunks and used them for raised beds for my gardens.
3) Just my thoughts here. The strongest friendships are formed when two or more people are working towards a common objective or working to overcome a common obstacle. Consider just going over to help a neighbor cleaning up some of his mess. I am sure he will remember the kindly offered gesture and want to repay it in the future. Working on a
project with companionship is a whole lot easier that doing the chore by oneself. And right there you have a friendship formed/strengthened.
Anyhow, these are just a few thoughts I had regarding your inquiry. I am sure that others can expand on these points.
Good luck,
Eric