"you cut half the tree after planting, so the root will get stronger and bigger, if you don't, aerial growth and flowers will be too much for those poor roots!"
it actually make sense... but maybe i could also remove new flowers or new little brunches as soon as i see them, so i may avoid to destroy the tree... but.. will that be enough to help a tree to root? i believe that a tree that was transplanted in fall/winter had a bit more of time to establish roots...
i must say that also some "don't prune" people would still cut half the tree and let a new trunk to form. first and last prunning.
i still hesitate to do such a heavy action on my little trees
We bought a Fuyu persimmon tree in summer 2019. I didn't want to prune it because it was so heavily laden with fruit. Despite my husband's advice to 'whack it back' I left it alone. It dropped most of its fruit. I was worried that it was diseased, but I learned from research that young fruit trees often drop their fruit the first few years until they get strong enough to support a heavy crop. So hubbie was right, and he cut off about the top 50% of the tree. It looked like he killed it!! But it grew back so beautifully last Spring and gave us about 8 of the most juicy, sweet persimmons I've ever eaten.
I've read many times, and have to come know first hand, that the worst way to prune a fruit tree is not to prune it at all. So early each Spring, right before my trees start to leaf out, I go around each tree and cut any branches that are: dead, diseased, damaged, or crossing over other branches.
I fertilize the trees after the pruning. I'm no arborist, but so far my trees seem to be happier for it.