So i just started making masonry stoves.
This is how i made clay slip with dry clay. I bought Fire clay.
Fill a 5 gallon
bucket about 1/3 full of
water and than add a similar amount of Fire clay to the bucket. Wait over night or as long as possible before mixing. You are looking for something which your trowel can move through without it slumping. After the bucket has sat over night i poured the excess water off and started mixing it.
Wet clay will be different and need to be grated thru some 1/4 inch mesh with gloves on.
As for your second question. I believe you will either need to make something with refractory cement. Or look for larger bricks. Maybe ceramic fibre board would work. Kiln shelves. I am sure there are other options.